I have come across with many people in my life, learned about who are true friends and who are not. A wise man told me that I have no friends in my life but very few ones. And yes, he did point me to realize the truth.
In my thinking and perception, friends who comes to you only when they need you, are the ”sex addict” friends. Always comes to you only when they need you, and then after that, poof! They are gone again. Friend indeed are friends who are true to you, they will somehow appear at anytime and oftenly, to disturb you as like a monkey always ask for a peanut (haha!), to ask you out, and to share your burden always. Upon that, they cross their heart and seal their mouth about the secrets you shared to them, never will they tell a single soul in this world about it.
Is true that those true monkey friends are hard to find, and here I realize that it is not so much about finding the true friends in your life, but is about you being the true friend to others and others to you, so make the first step first! (This applies to everyone, no exception!) And to those who have not been a good friend to your true friends, you better start repent and be true to your friends who are being true to you before it is too late.
So what are you? “Sex addict” or “a monkey” to me?
like your redefinition of the two different kinds of friends the “sex addict” and the “monkey”. I agree with you, it is about “you being the true friend to others” that magnets real friendship. Thanks for the post.
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